It feels strange to be over your own wedding ceremony and reception you have been preparing so much for, for months. It’s like being in some kind of ’vacuum’. Both Tomi and me, as well as our parents and friends were loitering about for days with nothing to prepare for, nothing to be expecting any more, but it was all so good, we wanted to do it over again, to get back into that world of overwhelming emotions, into that euphoria.
I bet this must be like what euphoria and dependency (drugs) do to you. Though I am lucky enough not to be addicted to anything, however after the past weekend I just might be getting the idea, this is the feeling these people are looking for. The solution is right here, though, as you see, start visiting emotionally totally overwhelming weddings.
I got lots and lots of congrats, comments, messages and emails, which also added to my joy and happiness. I feel I am the luckiest person in the world right now, to have my family and friends as well as my Instagram, Facebook and Youtube community as a great big EnergyBomb.
Some of you said well ok, great, but aren’t you a little young for getting married? I’m turning 23 this year. My mom was pregnant with me at 23, and we have the best relationship ever. Our generations however chose to put off childbirth to their 30s or 40s even, and marriage as such is becoming outdated too.
We had an interview a couple of days ago in a morning TV show called Mokka, and I can still recall Tomi’s words when he said: getting married is just another piece of paper. These are exactly the word those people say who are afraid of commitments. BUT, do you know the context Tomi used these words in? He said since this is only a piece of paper, why worry about getting married, why not do it, it really doesn’t change anything if we want to spend our lives together. I love his mentality.
COMMITMENT. It was only a month ago that this occurred to me. Our puppy, Lió will hopefully spend 15-20 years with us, and he is also a great big commitment. A little being who depends on us, who needs caring every day, however this sweet little burden gives us so much love day by day, which you will never experience unless you have a four-legged pet. There are those who attend positive emotion courses or stuff like that (I also went to one of these, so what), and get a hint to carry, for example, a pebble in their pocket and grab it several times a day and every time they do so, think about something pleasant, and in thought give thanks to someone for something, etc. Well if you happen to have a LoveBomb like our Lió, you don’t need to have a pebble in your pocket. We just look at him and the butterflies start fluttering in our stomach from the feeling of love. Therefore I say don’t be afraid of being committed to your partner, or your pet, you will get much more than it takes.
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he other thing that flashes through my mind when I think of our wedding is that we hardly have pictures we took ourselves, and our friends also forgot to take photos. Sure we had a great photographer who is soon going to send us the photos (I really hope he managed to be everywhere and photographed everyone), since we all forgot to take snapshots. Whoever we talk to about the wedding says it was all so well organized (from 4 pm till 7 am) and everyone just went with the flow and the programs, having a great time and chilling out and just chatting with old friends, it didn’t occur to them to document the evening. Even though nowadays we often document first, and only start enjoying the event, once we know our documentation is safe and sound.
This, to me, means that this really was a BIG HIT, as everyone just simply enjoyed the evening, and relaxed, returning to a world which they remember only from childhood memories, and which seems long gone in the bustle of our everyday lives.
The next strong emotion for me was aroused by our PERFECT WEDDING GUESTS. There might by some truth in the saying, Birds of a feather, flock together. Well, we flocked all right. Tomi also comes from a loving and supportive family, just like me, so he is also well-balanced and has similar friends around him as me. This was plain to see at the wedding, as I myself have never seen an event, where 3-4 generations do everything together with the utmost easiness and flow. We were all dancing as one to the hits of the 60s just as to ACDC, or the hits of today, my generation danced and swirled around both with small kids and the elderly too. ‘Twas great to see. Let’s not forget to thank Gábor Gönczi and the Smile for creating the best atmosphere ever, and having even the waiters dance.
I only have one (bunch of) wish(es) left and that is to make all my unmarried friends, and especially the person who caught my bouquet, want to start getting married, to let them see how much more happiness and joy, balance and steadiness, as well as safety and emotions this brings to a relationship. This would, by the way, also solve the problem I mentioned at the beginning of my blog, we could go to a party LIKE THIS every couple of months or so, with the same people, party organizers and to these great locations.
Following our wedding three engagements have already taken place, congrats to Regina Parti, Rebeka Kárpáti and László Egerszegi… Looking forward to some further good news and a couple of invitations!
